It’s in his or her Kiss

women-man-in-loveLet’s talk about kissing, I love kissing, it is so intimate. There is a reason that hookers don’t kiss on the mouth, because it is so personal. Honestly,  I think it is a lost art. In today’s busy world people can often rush past this mutually satisfying experience. Maybe we need to slow things down a bit and explore this intimate gift.

Just like sex there are so many different types of kisses. There is the long slow, sensual exploration, no need to rush here.  Why would you want to? I personally I like to experience it all. From the faintest touch, try just barely touching your partners lips and then pull back slightly and see what happens, I bet that your partner will come searching for your mouth. What about those deep wet  kisses that take your breath away? Is it hot in here?   A little nibble on your partner’s bottom lip can create a little excitement, remember not too hard, no pain needed here.  Look your partner right in the eyes and smile that sexy smile as you lightly touch their lips.  Some of the most amazing kisses I have experienced, barely involved touching. This of course is only possible with great chemistry, Ah the elusive chemistry! God love it!

Men, I will let you in on a little known fact about women, if you are a good kisser, chances are you will get more. If your first kiss sucks sorry but you are probably done for. The first kiss should not be like a big wet sloppy dogs. Sorry no sugar coating here, I am here to help right. 🙂  It should should start out as a very romantic sweet soft enticing kiss that keeps her wanting more. You want her excited, not disgusted, honestly I have had both and very often the later by men that I thought would or should know better. Women, you are just as responsible for your part, sorry no one is off the hook here.  It takes two to tangle or is that tango, (a Freudian slip).  What about those hard pensive closed lips, or a stabbing tongue, ouch……. painful and not sexy at all, from either side.  What can I say, take your time, start out slow, explore, explore and have fun. Remember how much fun you had as a teenager, when all you did was kiss?  Practise, practise, practise………..okay you have your homework, what are you going to do tonight? 🙂

I would love to hear your thoughts and comments on some of your most amazing kisses. Was it the chemistry that decided the height of  excitement of the kiss? Was it the moment that you knew that you were connected to your partner? Did you eliminate someone because of a bad kiss? Any kissing tips you want to share? Besides the obvious, making sure that your teeth and breath are sparkling clean and fresh. Please send me your comments, I always appreciate your participation. Have fun and happy kissing.

  1. sexloveblisssexlovebliss06-22-2009

    I believe in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve and I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days.

    Crash Davis, Bull Durham (1988)

    Kevin Costner hadn’t even kissed her…but you knew that you could and would in exactly the way women long to be kissed! Mmmm.

  2. sexloveblisssexlovebliss06-22-2009

    Sorry, can’t type, think of Kevin Costner kissing passionately, and keep my pronouns straight!!!

    My comment should have read:
    “Kevin Costner hadn’t even kissed her (Susan Sarandon) yet…but you knew that HE could and would…in exactly the way women long to be kissed! Mmmm.

    (Can’t believe that movie is 21 years old!)

  3. vancouverdatingvancouverdating06-22-2009

    I know why you can’t type it’s thinking about that kiss, it makes us crazy. 🙂 Is it hot in here? 🙂
    I totally agree and I loved that scene. Obviously it was a great kiss, because they are still together today.

  4. sexloveblisssexlovebliss06-22-2009

    Okay the kisses and the heat ARE getting to you!

    The kiss from Kevin Costner (Crash Vegas) got him together with Susan Sarandon (Annie Savoy) at the end of the movie but the chemistry must have REALLY hit a home run when Tim Robbins (Ebby “Nuke La Loosh) and Susan Sarandon kissed (etc.) because they have been together ever since in real life!!

    And remember, kissing burns approximately 60-100 calories per hour…and what a way to keep you mouth occupied!!!

  5. vancouverdatingvancouverdating06-22-2009

    OMG it must be the heat, or the kiss, that’s who I was thinking of Tim Robbins, same movie different lover.

    I like the calorie thing, good to know, and a occupied mouth is a happy mouth 🙂

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